Comments on: Me and Her http://therrysays.com/2008/07/me-and-her/ "We are all manufacturers. Making good, making trouble, or making excuses." HV Adolt Wed, 10 Mar 2010 03:41:52 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Finally Woken http://therrysays.com/2008/07/me-and-her/comment-page-1/#comment-990 Finally Woken Mon, 14 Jul 2008 02:40:43 +0000 http://therrysays.com/?p=285#comment-990 Uh, the Rebecca Blood link didn't appear in my previous comment. Here it is: http://www.rebeccablood.net/handbook/excerpts/weblog_ethics.html Finally Woken's last blog post..<a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/FinallyWoken/~3/332374214/me-and-them-almost-lesbian-love-story.html" rel="nofollow">Me and Them; A(n Almost) Lesbian Love Story</a> Uh, the Rebecca Blood link didn’t appear in my previous comment. Here it is: http://www.rebeccablood.net/handbook/excerpts/weblog_ethics.html

Finally Woken’s last blog post..Me and Them; A(n Almost) Lesbian Love Story

]]> By: Finally Woken http://therrysays.com/2008/07/me-and-her/comment-page-1/#comment-989 Finally Woken Mon, 14 Jul 2008 02:31:53 +0000 http://therrysays.com/?p=285#comment-989 Lily of the Valley, I have written a long comment to respond yours but on second thought, I don't think it's worth it. You can't just delete things which have been published as if they're never there in the first place; see Rebecca Blood's no.4</a>. Believe me that what Marisa did is noticed by many Indonesian 'top' bloggers. To me this matter is finished. I have moved on and am dealing with much more important matter. And I believe others are also tired of this (borrowing Rob's term) slugfest. Have a happy Monday everybody! Finally Woken's last blog post..<a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/FinallyWoken/~3/332374214/me-and-them-almost-lesbian-love-story.html" rel="nofollow">Me and Them; A(n Almost) Lesbian Love Story</a> Lily of the Valley,

I have written a long comment to respond yours but on second thought, I don’t think it’s worth it.

You can’t just delete things which have been published as if they’re never there in the first place; see Rebecca Blood’s no.4. Believe me that what Marisa did is noticed by many Indonesian ‘top’ bloggers.

To me this matter is finished. I have moved on and am dealing with much more important matter. And I believe others are also tired of this (borrowing Rob’s term) slugfest.

Have a happy Monday everybody!

Finally Woken’s last blog post..Me and Them; A(n Almost) Lesbian Love Story

]]> By: LilyOfTheValley http://therrysays.com/2008/07/me-and-her/comment-page-1/#comment-986 LilyOfTheValley Mon, 14 Jul 2008 00:02:17 +0000 http://therrysays.com/?p=285#comment-986 Hi everyone. I'm Marisa's (icha) friend. I'm not here to trash anyone's blog or to fight. On contrary I regret that this should happened. I know some of you here as her regular commenters and am one too. I also know that most of you here are colson's friends or know icha from colson. We've tried to post follow-up on this matter(it's still written by marisa) at http://unspunblog.com but somehow the blogger in charge (ong hock chuan) have blocked the comment. The hey mister post is set to private and not deleted, icha said because it's already in that blog and ppl can talk about it there. We've also been questioning icha on why she seemed like intentionally putting herself in this difficult situation (intentionally confronting a certain demographic) and why she let ong hock chuan interfere with this matter, abruptly making her as the object. We know her in person, that's why we notice that there's something wrong.. Even so she deserves the right to feel angry to certain bloggers like the way you feel now. She has mentioned about this several times before, mainly because she's really trying to adapt with you here. Imho, she has tried hard enough for something that she never did want in the first place. Until now she hasn't answered any of my questions and I can't understand why.. I don't know if this matters or not but even if you no longer like who she is or you hate her, it doesn't change the fact that Journal by Lightbeamers has contributed something and maybe more. She also deleted any comment that speaks harshly about you ppl, mine is one of them actually hehe.. Why vegetables? Because lamb chop is supposed to be for dinner? Thanks for this chance and as I said, I regret the fact that it should be ended this way. I'm sure that you guys here are great great people, just not the right ones in the right place. I don't have a public blog (i have but it's just for family n close friends for now), so pls excuse me for not submitting URL <blockquote>Sorry, Lily. I don't understand the bit when you change yourself from "we" to "I" back and forth - are you speaking on behalf of many people? If I call you an overaged spoilt brat now, and delete those words tomorrow, does that make it okay? We know The Journal has contributed something - it is a great blog from a (used to be) great blogger, which was why it came to our surprise to witness such abrupt change of personality from her directed to me in my blog, even though it was clear she was having a fit with someone else. What I still don't understand is - if Marisa has a problem with Anita, why not confront her in her blog? Or write an e-mail to Anita? Why MY blog? Is it because I'm a harmless target who won't have a chance to fight back? Probably there are more questions unanswered hovering around in other people's minds (those who have unfortunately been involved in this unpleasant incident), so it's okay if my questions are left unanswered. I feel better bringing them out in the open. Thanks for dropping by here, Lily.</blockquote> Hi everyone.
I’m Marisa’s (icha) friend. I’m not here to trash anyone’s blog or to fight. On contrary I regret that this should happened. I know some of you here as her regular commenters and am one too. I also know that most of you here are colson’s friends or know icha from colson.
We’ve tried to post follow-up on this matter(it’s still written by marisa) at http://unspunblog.com but somehow the blogger in charge (ong hock chuan) have blocked the comment. The hey mister post is set to private and not deleted, icha said because it’s already in that blog and ppl can talk about it there.
We’ve also been questioning icha on why she seemed like intentionally putting herself in this difficult situation (intentionally confronting a certain demographic) and why she let ong hock chuan interfere with this matter, abruptly making her as the object. We know her in person, that’s why we notice that there’s something wrong..
Even so she deserves the right to feel angry to certain bloggers like the way you feel now. She has mentioned about this several times before, mainly because she’s really trying to adapt with you here. Imho, she has tried hard enough for something that she never did want in the first place.
Until now she hasn’t answered any of my questions and I can’t understand why..
I don’t know if this matters or not but even if you no longer like who she is or you hate her, it doesn’t change the fact that Journal by Lightbeamers has contributed something and maybe more. She also deleted any comment that speaks harshly about you ppl, mine is one of them actually hehe..
Why vegetables? Because lamb chop is supposed to be for dinner?
Thanks for this chance and as I said, I regret the fact that it should be ended this way. I’m sure that you guys here are great great people, just not the right ones in the right place.

I don’t have a public blog (i have but it’s just for family n close friends for now), so pls excuse me for not submitting URL

Sorry, Lily. I don’t understand the bit when you change yourself from “we” to “I” back and forth – are you speaking on behalf of many people?

If I call you an overaged spoilt brat now, and delete those words tomorrow, does that make it okay? We know The Journal has contributed something – it is a great blog from a (used to be) great blogger, which was why it came to our surprise to witness such abrupt change of personality from her directed to me in my blog, even though it was clear she was having a fit with someone else.

What I still don’t understand is – if Marisa has a problem with Anita, why not confront her in her blog? Or write an e-mail to Anita? Why MY blog? Is it because I’m a harmless target who won’t have a chance to fight back?

Probably there are more questions unanswered hovering around in other people’s minds (those who have unfortunately been involved in this unpleasant incident), so it’s okay if my questions are left unanswered. I feel better bringing them out in the open. Thanks for dropping by here, Lily.

]]> By: Diny http://therrysays.com/2008/07/me-and-her/comment-page-1/#comment-979 Diny Fri, 11 Jul 2008 16:54:08 +0000 http://therrysays.com/?p=285#comment-979 *covering my ears to avoid the feud* such a sweet post, what a nice way to appreciate something (friendship, regardless it's cyber or in real life) and someone. Diny's last blog post..<a href="http://accordingtod.wordpress.com/2008/07/10/yes-we-are-screening-your-calls/" rel="nofollow">Yes, We Are Screening Your Calls</a> <blockquote>Yes!! This post was an appreciation indeed! It was it's honest intention to do so, so I don't know how the hell it could spark negative energies which bubbled up into this massive emotional explosion that was unecessary and might I say, quite stupid!</blockquote> *covering my ears to avoid the feud*
such a sweet post, what a nice way to appreciate something (friendship, regardless it’s cyber or in real life) and someone.

Diny’s last blog post..Yes, We Are Screening Your Calls

Yes!! This post was an appreciation indeed! It was it’s honest intention to do so, so I don’t know how the hell it could spark negative energies which bubbled up into this massive emotional explosion that was unecessary and might I say, quite stupid!

]]> By: silly http://therrysays.com/2008/07/me-and-her/comment-page-1/#comment-978 silly Fri, 11 Jul 2008 16:45:21 +0000 http://therrysays.com/?p=285#comment-978 sorry... I might don't know what's the real problem here, but seems that you all discussing a topic in anger... <i>*sodorin buku anger management* *gelar tiker ahhh, seru nih kayaknya disini* </i> silly's last blog post..<a href="http://sillystupidlife.com/2008/07/11/men-vs-womens-brain/" rel="nofollow">MEN vs WOMEN’s BRAIN</a> <blockquote>Heeeeeeeey Silly, did you enjoy the little entertainment that had befallen my poor blog? LOL... perhaps instead of anger-management, a "How to Overcome your Attention Deficit Disorder" book sounds like a much better reccommendation ha3x.</blockquote> sorry…

I might don’t know what’s the real problem here, but seems that you all discussing a topic in anger…

*sodorin buku anger management*
*gelar tiker ahhh, seru nih kayaknya disini*

silly’s last blog post..MEN vs WOMEN’s BRAIN

Heeeeeeeey Silly, did you enjoy the little entertainment that had befallen my poor blog? LOL… perhaps instead of anger-management, a “How to Overcome your Attention Deficit Disorder” book sounds like a much better reccommendation ha3x.

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