Comments on: What’s So Great About Being a Bride http://therrysays.com/2008/07/why-its-great-being-a-bride/ Notes of My Life Mon, 21 May 2012 11:32:19 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Nenda Fadhilah http://therrysays.com/2008/07/why-its-great-being-a-bride/comment-page-1/#comment-1727 Nenda Fadhilah Tue, 12 Aug 2008 03:47:13 +0000 http://therrysays.com/?p=328#comment-1727 Kalau saya menikah nanti yang penting ijab kabul sama masalah administrasi. Kalau soal pesta, makan-makan kecil sama 100 orang undangan palingan (teman dekat dan keluarga) sudah cukup. Males pesta gede gt, cape jadi pajangan depan pelaminan, udah gt kan gw agak-agak hiperaktif pula. Mendingan duit pestanya buat beli rumah/apartemen saja. Kalau saya menikah nanti yang penting ijab kabul sama masalah administrasi. Kalau soal pesta, makan-makan kecil sama 100 orang undangan palingan (teman dekat dan keluarga) sudah cukup.
Males pesta gede gt, cape jadi pajangan depan pelaminan, udah gt kan gw agak-agak hiperaktif pula. Mendingan duit pestanya buat beli rumah/apartemen saja.

]]> By: pitshu http://therrysays.com/2008/07/why-its-great-being-a-bride/comment-page-1/#comment-1066 pitshu Thu, 24 Jul 2008 01:44:54 +0000 http://therrysays.com/?p=328#comment-1066 hmmm... kalo menurut pitshu, pernikahan kan yang penting ikatan na! dan memory na. Jadi yang penting bukan resepsi na, yang penting saat pemberkatan di gereja na, dan tanggal pemberkatan yang penting hihihi. walaupun kata orang wedding itu seumur idup hanya 1 kali, jadi yang namanya resepsi itu perlu, tapi menurut pitshu sih enggak perlu ^^. Yang penting saat di gereja, ada banyak mawar putih, g menggunakan gaun pengantin modern atau kebaya bewarna putih nan indah ^^. Dan bisa menerima pemberkatan/sakramen pada tanggal yang g pilih. <blockquote>Setubuh Pit!! Resepsi tidak seberapa penting dibandingkan dengan pemberkatan! Gw jg mikir nih keqnya ga bakal ada resepsi. Habis pemberkatan, makan-makan aja sama keluarga terdekat. Beres deh! Pitshu kapan merit, udah ada ide mau gimana diadainnya? Share ya ;)</blockquote> hmmm… kalo menurut pitshu, pernikahan kan yang penting ikatan na! dan memory na. Jadi yang penting bukan resepsi na, yang penting saat pemberkatan di gereja na, dan tanggal pemberkatan yang penting hihihi. walaupun kata orang wedding itu seumur idup hanya 1 kali, jadi yang namanya resepsi itu perlu, tapi menurut pitshu sih enggak perlu ^^.

Yang penting saat di gereja, ada banyak mawar putih, g menggunakan gaun pengantin modern atau kebaya bewarna putih nan indah ^^. Dan bisa menerima pemberkatan/sakramen pada tanggal yang g pilih.

Setubuh Pit!! Resepsi tidak seberapa penting dibandingkan dengan pemberkatan! Gw jg mikir nih keqnya ga bakal ada resepsi. Habis pemberkatan, makan-makan aja sama keluarga terdekat. Beres deh!

Pitshu kapan merit, udah ada ide mau gimana diadainnya? Share ya ;)

]]> By: Andie Summerkiss http://therrysays.com/2008/07/why-its-great-being-a-bride/comment-page-1/#comment-1061 Andie Summerkiss Wed, 23 Jul 2008 09:55:02 +0000 http://therrysays.com/?p=328#comment-1061 I went against the mainstream on my wedding .. the whole affair cost less than USD 2,000, rings, food, tent, photos, band included. :D No studio photos taken. I did buy the dress though (let's not discuss how much it cost). I was the cheapest bride in the whole North Sumatra. I think that's one of the reason why no magazines came to cover it ... LOL. <blockquote>Less than $2000?? Care to share the details? ;) I'm after a simple dress that doesn't drag down on the floor ten miles away (I hate those types), just a simple, minimalist and well-cut design. The wedding gowns being shown at local bridal magazines are too elaborate for me. How come they don't do simple and nice designs like in the US or something? So where did you get your gown? *wink*</blockquote> I went against the mainstream on my wedding .. the whole affair cost less than USD 2,000, rings, food, tent, photos, band included. :D No studio photos taken. I did buy the dress though (let’s not discuss how much it cost). I was the cheapest bride in the whole North Sumatra. I think that’s one of the reason why no magazines came to cover it … LOL.

Less than $2000?? Care to share the details? ;)
I’m after a simple dress that doesn’t drag down on the floor ten miles away (I hate those types), just a simple, minimalist and well-cut design. The wedding gowns being shown at local bridal magazines are too elaborate for me. How come they don’t do simple and nice designs like in the US or something?

So where did you get your gown? *wink*

]]> By: ecky http://therrysays.com/2008/07/why-its-great-being-a-bride/comment-page-1/#comment-1060 ecky Wed, 23 Jul 2008 07:57:09 +0000 http://therrysays.com/?p=328#comment-1060 I watched one of Oprah's episode about wedding, one of them already plan how to have her wedding and she has the full booklet of theme, gown, the party, the cake, food, music etc.. Just like Monica Geller in Friends, unbelievable! And Oprah said, some girls forget about the whole meaning of getting marriage, it's not all about the wedding day but it's how are you going to spend the next day (after wedding day) and the rest of your life with your loved one is the most important thing of all. I'm with her all along! <blockquote>A lot of girls do that - plan their weddings since they were like, ten or something! And I felt so left out because I never had the urge to do the same! It's as if everything is ready (gowns, flowers, venues, decorations) and all they need is some picture-perfect man to fit their picture-perfect wedding! That's insane LOL Makes me think that some women actually treat men like accessories!</blockquote> I watched one of Oprah’s episode about wedding, one of them already plan how to have her wedding and she has the full booklet of theme, gown, the party, the cake, food, music etc.. Just like Monica Geller in Friends, unbelievable!

And Oprah said, some girls forget about the whole meaning of getting marriage, it’s not all about the wedding day but it’s how are you going to spend the next day (after wedding day) and the rest of your life with your loved one is the most important thing of all. I’m with her all along!

A lot of girls do that – plan their weddings since they were like, ten or something! And I felt so left out because I never had the urge to do the same! It’s as if everything is ready (gowns, flowers, venues, decorations) and all they need is some picture-perfect man to fit their picture-perfect wedding!

That’s insane LOL

Makes me think that some women actually treat men like accessories!

]]> By: katadia http://therrysays.com/2008/07/why-its-great-being-a-bride/comment-page-1/#comment-1059 katadia Wed, 23 Jul 2008 04:59:47 +0000 http://therrysays.com/?p=328#comment-1059 Hua..ha... thanks for scanning the page, but that weddding rings pic is just hilarious! When all gets a bit too nutty, try to keep things in perspective Ther. I was in tears a couple of times in the months leading up to my wedding too. As long as your folks/in-laws are paying for it, then let them go bananas. All this commotion and the stress involved in being a bride-to-be who has to accommodate the demands from your parents, in-laws, extended relies, neighbours, etc etc.... are just a small price to pay so you can finally <del>have regular sex</del> be with the love of your life. He..he... <blockquote>I reckon the first picture is more hilarious - those girls' responses are beyond! LOL Letting my parents pay for it? That would disaster Katz! They will take over everything! Even worse, they will want the wedding to suit their taste, not mine (that's like comparing Old Spice with Ralph Lauren Romance). Actually I've thought about not involving a lot of people - just those who really have to be, like my parents and my parents-in-law ;) I wonder if that's possible....</blockquote> Hua..ha… thanks for scanning the page, but that weddding rings pic is just hilarious!

When all gets a bit too nutty, try to keep things in perspective Ther. I was in tears a couple of times in the months leading up to my wedding too. As long as your folks/in-laws are paying for it, then let them go bananas. All this commotion and the stress involved in being a bride-to-be who has to accommodate the demands from your parents, in-laws, extended relies, neighbours, etc etc…. are just a small price to pay so you can finally have regular sex be with the love of your life. He..he…

I reckon the first picture is more hilarious – those girls’ responses are beyond! LOL

Letting my parents pay for it? That would disaster Katz! They will take over everything! Even worse, they will want the wedding to suit their taste, not mine (that’s like comparing Old Spice with Ralph Lauren Romance). Actually I’ve thought about not involving a lot of people – just those who really have to be, like my parents and my parents-in-law ;)

I wonder if that’s possible….

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